Welcome to Site on Happy Marriage
HEY FRIENDS .....
This Page--the First of "Welwisher series"-- Focus on: Happy Marriage. I will share my views, and offer suggestions on how to : "Achieve-Happy marriage through Couple-Intimacy."
Marriage is a socially accepted relationship for a couple who wish to live together, for whole of their life. This is Inducive and Conducive for growth in Personal, Economic and Carrier front of both partners. It also helps in overall development of the family. For marriage to flourish : Good Carrier growth, Economic Soundness, Mutual Understanding and Emotional Parity among partners are Essential Elements.
Of all human relationships, Marriage is most Intimate one. A Happy and Content marriage can be achieved by "COUPLE - INTIMACY." Key to Couple - Intimacy is Honesty and Dedication to each-other. "Intimacy and Affinity" among a couple go together: One compliments the Other. To strengthen "AFFINITY" - couples should know "Unknown aspects" of the relationship as well "Necessities and Quests" of their partner.
Men and Women are created different: Physically, Emotionally and Intellectually. INTIMACY is to Accept , Share and Enjoy the Difference so as to become "One- Entity." COUPLE - INTIMACY is Sustained and Enhanced by maintaining "INDIVIDUAL-CHARM."
Women, in general, remain absorbed in Family-Responsibilities and neglect "Personal care and Grooming." They must keep physically- fit and have happy mental stature. Only healthy and cheerful house - wife can create "Cohesive home -atmosphere." Woman must retain her CHARM and should remain ADORABLE to her Husband. There have been numerous cases, wherein, woman had neglected Personal Care for Family-Duties and her Marriage itself had come, under THREAT.
For Men, "Work Schedules and Targets" take their Toll on them. This coupled with stretched working, result in "Tension". Which in-turn is responsible for many disorders such as -Hypertension, Obesity etc. Man should remain Fit- N- Fine by regularly taking to physical activities like Jogging, Walking, Yoga, Aerobics etc. He should bear Positive Thinking and Mindset. Keeping a Hobby for Leisure shall further help to ease tension. Thus, a man must retain his Charm and remain as HERMAN. One should understand that: "Money can buy Gadgets, not Health and Happiness."
Like any other relationship, marriage can also be 'Strained' some- time, and may come at BREAK-UP. Do not Give Hope. To overcome such desperate situation, keep patience , and take Initiative to "break the Ice." Talk to your partner with a open mind. First tell his / her Positive Points and ask about Negative Points; partner does not like in you. Listen to these points quietly; do not counter argue and note them down. Assure your partner that you will do all is required, to overcome them and ask to give you one fair chance, to "start- a -fresh", this Relationship. There stands a Good Possibility that- Your partner will react to this Positively and you can work to overcome the crisis, and be able to save the Marriage. It is interesting to know that, most common causes for "Break-Up" are: "Dishonesty" to Partner and "Too -much Intrusion" in Personal-life.
I trust that , suggestions given here shall bring favoring changes in your Married Life. FRIENDS....Shall meet again on some other topic - touching our Lives.